نظر الخاطبين دراسة حديثية فقهية

Suitors’ sight: doctrinal study based on Hadith

  • Islam Hasan Tazaza al-Istiqlal University, Palestine
  • Ahmad Zakarna University of Sultan Zainal Abidin (UNISZA), Malaysia
Keywords: Engagement, Suitors sight, Marriage

Abstract

This research deals with an important aspect of family formation and its structure. Engagement is seen the first step of founding a family. During the engagement period, the two suitors get a chance to know each other, and - can look at the other so that both souls feel comfortable towards the other, and thus having better chance to form a well- consistent family. This research is operated within the theoretical framework of analytical descriptive studies. It mainly aims at clarifying the concept of engagement, the limits of each suitors' sight to the other and the rules of this sight. Findings of the study disclosed that there is a consensus among religious that engagement is a truly licit for the many evidences supporting its legality, however they differed in its Judgment. Also, one of the justifications of lawfulness of engagement is knowing the beauty of the fiancée and the fiancé́, being free of defects, and the persistence of intimacy and love between the two spouses. The majority of religious scholars agreed that the fiancé́ is allowed to look at his fiancée, but they differed in the limits of the sight. The researchers concluded that it is permissible for the male suitor to look at from the typical apparent parts of a woman in front of her prohibited degrees based on conditions that have to be met. The woman also can look at her fiancé as she may like him as he may. In light of these findings, the researchers have recommended religious scholars and preachers to clarify legal matters regarding the family as many Muslims are indeed lack knowledge of these legislations that rendered many to make mistakes causing family problems.

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2020-12-22
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Tazaza, I., & Zakarna, A. (2020). نظر الخاطبين دراسة حديثية فقهية. HADIS, 10(20), 636-657. Retrieved from http://hadis.kuis.edu.my/index.php/inhad/article/view/132
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